Recently in a SoulCare session, I found myself sharing a tender memory of my Dad and his black loggers lunch box as a way of explaining the “gifts” of God. The way He surprises us with the unexpected.
My Daddy’s lunchbox was the source of much excitement at the end of a long day. The road to town was a winding one that didn’t beg to be traveled more than once a day. So, early in the morning Dad would rise before the sun was up, pour his cup of black joe with three sugars, load his old loggers lunch box with the carefully wrapped wax paper bologna sandwiches Mom had made the night before and down the road to work he would go. Because we lived so far out, Dad was the point of contact with the post office, the grocery store, the pharmacy and whatever else his large family of seven might need.
The opening of the old lunch box held so much daily potential for joy and sorrow. It was a race to see who would get to open it first, there to find the love letters, lost letters, the occasional Idaho Mountain candy bar, cherry for me, vanilla for Him. The surprise of a large piece of a bee’s honeycomb he had found in a tree he had cut down, with the amber sweetness still clinging to it. To this day I remember my first taste of wild, fresh honey. You never knew what the lunch box would hold for that day…”life is like ….Dad’s lunch box….you never know what ya gunna get”.
The Lord has spoken to me often during this year of grieving the loss of my parents. He has deepened my understanding of His Father’s heart in ways that has both excited, and terrified me. Through it all, I am thankful that I am discovering a God who delights in giving gifts, and when that gift is the escort of pain, I know I can open the lid of the box, and I will find a tender relationship of love that whispers: “As I was there in the joy, I am here in the sorrow.”
We took Dad’s old lunch box down from the shelf and used it one last time, to hold the cards and love wishes of those at his memorial service who expressed their hearts to us as they said goodbye. Thank you Dad, for the lifetime of lessons you taught me from the lunch box.
2 thoughts on “The Lunch Box”
Tears as I read this, Chritina… Absolutely beautiful.
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Christina, The Lunch Box was beautiful! Aren’t we so blessed because God gave us the beautiful gift of a loving earthly father. I have had so many thoughts of your mother today. I see her face and hear her voice. I kept reaching up and touching the precious treasure you gave me today. I love it so much, not only because it’s beautiful but because of what it represents. You chose this dark but lovely mother of pearl for me. She created this and you so unselfishly shared your mother with me. Thank you it is one of my favorite things ever, and so are you!! I love you so much it hurts, Jeri
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